Betty asks…

What are the divorce rates for the following provinces/states?

I’ve been trying to look everywhere for divorce rates (I’m comparing them to unemployment rates to see if there’s a correlation) If anyone could please help that would be great. (rates in percentages)

Ontario
Quebec
Manitoba
Alberta
British Columbia
Newfoundland
P.E.I
Nova Scotia
Alabama
Florida
Pennsylvania
Delaware
Maine
South Dakota
Michigan
Utah
South Carolina
West Virginia
I figured out the american ones i only need:
Ontario
Quebec
Manitoba
Alberta
British Columbia
Newfoundland
P.E.I
Nova Scotia

answers:

You could google these more accurately.

Carol asks…

Abandonment and divorce – how is property distributed in PA?

If a husband packs his bags and leaves the house, wife and kids (15 and 22 yr olds), how is property distributed? They live in a fully paid-off house in Pennsylvania.

I believe this is referred to as “Actual Desertion”. The wife wants him to stay but he left and basically abandoned everything.

Would he still have a right to claim 50% of the property?

answers:

I believe if he left any of his property, he can say he didn’t technically abandon. How long was he gone? Did he ever return? It’s tricky to sometimes prove abandonment or desertation just like sometimes its tricky to prove infidelity.

Maria asks…

Divorce in PA?

How long does it take to get a divorce in Pennsylvania.

answers:

Hey, wanna get married?

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Laura asks…

How to find an address to serve divorce papers to?

I need a free website to find an address for my spouse to send divorce papers to.

answers:

Www.whitepages.com

Jenny asks…

How can I serve my husband with divorce papers?

I am not getting into the details of this questions, but would someone like legal aid help me with serving him divorce papers because I am too chicken to hand them to him myself? I am being evil and want to surprise him with this because of what he did to me. He surprised me so I am surprising him back… I guess that logic is stupid, but that is how I WANT to handle the situation.

answers:

Sounds weird, but google it. In my state you have to be separated (Either in separate homes, or not sharing a room) for 6 months before either party can file for a divorce, but that may just be in “No fault” divorce cases. I do believe that were there is infidelity involved, you can file for divorce in any given amount of time…definitely look into your state laws. In the meantime, text me. I’ll be hounding you shortly.

ETA- I like the idea of Fed Ex or UPS, something he signs for that shows he got it. Or maybe you can hire a process serving company…I’m only speaking out of what I gathered from Dale Denton in Pineapple Express, not sure how legit companies and services like that actually are.

Lizzie asks…

No address for my exhusband to serve divorce papers to and i live in michigan?

Dodging all my attempts of serving him divorce papers.Now he has moved from his parents and i have no current address on him.What are my options?

answers:

Each state has its own laws, but a end shoot is to talk to a couple police officers are the local station and see if any of them serve papers as a side job [ 100 bucks Back in the day ] or there is abandonment proceedings but that tends to take twice as long.

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Richard asks…

If joint custody custody is specified in my divorce papers, can I take my 15.5 year old out of state?

If joint custody custody is specified in my divorce papers, can I take my 15.5 year old out of state to live, or would it be considered kidnapping without my ex-husband’s written permission. Also the court has nothing to do with the custody, but I collect child support, so do I also need their permission to do this, even if I’m willing to give up the child support? I live in Philadelphia Pennsylvania.

answers:

I do not know the laws in PA, but here in FL, if you have joint custody, you have to tell the ex where you will be and IF the ex decided he/she does not want you to take the child he/she can take you to court. At that point you can tell the judge why you want to move. As long as it is a valid reason, then he/she SHOULD grant permission. The most valid reason is work related. As for child support, you should NEVER “give it up” as it is not YOURS to give up. That money is for your 15.5 year old. Hope this helps.

Paul asks…

In Pennsylvania who gets child support if each parent has sole custody of 2 children? The parents are divorced?

The mother originally had custody of both, now the children are 14 and 16,the dad now has custody of one and the mother has custody of the other.

answers:

I have seen it go 2 different ways sometimes neither pays anymore support if it is agreed upon or sometimes the parent though having custody of 1 child will continue to pay some child support on the other because of income differences. Depends on the people involved and how vindictive the one ex spouse is. If you are concerned your still going to end up paying then try to get a legal written agreement between you and try to keep it out of domestics

Lizzie asks…

is there any real divorce papers i can print out from the internet?

i live in pennsylvania. if that helps?

answers:

Nothing legal!

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Linda asks…

How does the divorce work in AZ if one party cheated?

I’m not quite sure how divorce works in the state of AZ. Like if people have to split assets, etc. Alimony, stuff like that. But what if one party cheated, do they still get half? Could they get alimony? What if they technically got their half of the person’s stuff already? Etc. Could someone point me in the right direction, don’t say an attorney, becuae I’m not the one getting divorced, they will give me no information.

answers:

The reason for the divorce does not have anything to do with splitting assets. That’s a completely separate issue. AZ is a community property state which means all assets & debts will be split 50/50 during divorce, no way around it.
As far as alimony, its hard to get anyway, but the judge looks at all aspects of the marriage: how long you were married, who works, who stays home (if anyone) and makes the decision based on those details.

Joseph asks…

How long after filling for divorce will the party be served in South Carolina?

I live in South Carolina, and I am filling for divorce for my husband on adultery grounds. I went to a lawyer and did all the paper work on Thursday. He said he would put in the paper work on Friday, and the Court would get it by Monday. How long will it take for him to get served? Days, weeks, a month, or months? I want to know what to expect. I am filling for custody of our two children as well. Any advice would be welcomed.

answers:

My suggestion would be to ask your attorney.

Richard asks…

I might have a Divorce party, ( just family) any ideas?

I need all kinds of ideas For all ages, ( family)
For a Divorce party
i was thinking of a cake & play cards & listen to music,
is that to bland? should i add more?
Hope lotts answer,
Did any of you had a Divorce party or will?

answers:

Well one woman I know made her divorce part just like her wedding reception, with out the groom! Instead of exchanging vows, she burned her wedding dress. OK maybe extreme, but it was one heck of a party!

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Donald asks…

Question about dog custody / ownership in Pennsylvania? NOT divorce-related. Help desperately needed!?

Hi :)
My son bought a dog in August and, even though I didn’t want a dog, I gave in and let him bring him home because he promised that if it wasn’t working out, he’d re-home him. Things were okay at first – but before I knew it, I was the primary caregiver for his dog, Boris. Now, my son does work a full-time job and *is* biologically forced to chase girls (he’s twenty years old lol) at any opportunity, but I quickly grew weary of taking care of his dog most of the time. I’ll be fair, he did take him out for runs and walks when he could, but it seemed too little for me. Anyhoo, long story short: I gave Boris to the parents of a good friend of my daughter’s. HUGE mistake. My son is EXTREMELY upset and wants his dog back. When we talked and he realized that I’m serious about him spending more time with his dog, we agreed that he could get him back. As luck would have it, the wife of my daughter’s friend happened to call about a few problems with Boris. (They have two other dogs, and Boris is a pit bull.) She was sending him back over, but unfortunately, her husband decided to be an ***. Said that his son (seven years old) had become attached to him. (In twenty four hours?!) And in spite of me begging him, refuses to return the dog. Soooooo, we’re going to the magistrate because the dog was never actually mine to begin with (and we can prove that) and I had no right to give him away. But I suck at web searches and can’t find any cases or laws to cite that aren’t divorce-related that I can present to the magistrate. Any help would be deeply appreciated, and thank you from the bottom of my heart :)
Our Boris:

http://i42.tinypic.com/21bnq69.jpg

MamaBas: All due repsect, but I did mention that my son does now understand that he needs to spend more time with him. And attached in twenty-four hours? That’s the same thing kids that age do with toys – which are quickly forgotten and discarded. Perhaps I didn’t explain the situation thoroughly enough. But this dog is loved and he IS coming back to my home – just under new rules this time. I’ve been tied down since I was nineteen, raising my kids, and I’m just not willing to have a new responsibility dumped on me willy-nilly. That’s all. I really don’t mind looking after him most of the time – just not all of the time. I just was hoping for some help as in case law to cite, not a lecture. But thank you anyway. Peace.
Rayven: The chasing girls thing was CLEARLY a joke. (Did you miss the “lol”?) He doesn’t need to chase girls. He’s lucky enough to have an utterly gorgeous girl with a heart of gold who loves him. Maybe I was just trying to lighten up a subject that’s seriously eating at me? Duh……
Chix: You are clearly an A S S H O L E. This dog was NOT neglected. You don’t know the whole story, in PA dogs ARE property, and you’re clearly cowardly pond scum who’s venting because of your own frustrations in your miserable effing life, anonymously, over the web. I asked for case law citations. Derrrrrr. Have a nice mouth rinse or two, hon, and then try again. Effing loser asshole.
I am indeed in Pennsylvania, boston… :) And to the magistrate’s office I’ll be going Tuesday morning :)

http://www.pacourts.us/T/SpecialCourts/MDJSearch.htm

answers:

To actually answer the question instead of passing judgement, you’re making it harder than it is. Simply take any photos, vet bills, or other paperwork or evidence you have with you to the Magistrate. Have your son go as the owner and present evidence that the dog is, indeed, his property. The people who have the dog now have no bill of sale, receipt, or other documents. From a legal standpoint, they have effectively stolen the dog, despite how they came to have it.

Michael asks…

How do I get my divorce case to be heard by the judge?

I cant afford a lawyer and neither can she…it will be uncontested as everythign has been settled already…we just need to get it finalized. Which dept do I call to schedule a court date?

I live in Pennsylvania

answers:

You start the process by filing a Motion within the domestic division of your county Clerk of Court office. You don’t call and schedule an appointment, you file a motion.

Buy a do-it-youself kit on-line and draw up the papers. I belive that it would file a Motion for Dissolution. A date would be set. The two of you go in front of the judge and the Dissolution is granted.

Thomas asks…

How much would a private investigator be for a divorce case where the man is cheating on the woman. ?

The case is in Pennsylvania, I told my friend I would try to see a round about figure. Thank you.

answers:

It’s all in what you want to know. I charge different rates for the service I render. It can cost any where from 2 to 5 thousand for a good investigation. It’s also good to find a investigator that has access to N.C.I.C. Tell your friend Good Luck

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Sandy asks…

how do i get a divorce?

i have not been with my husband in 9 years we have one child together. and we have not seen him in 6 years. his family won’t help me find him . if anyone can help me. his name is Charles R. Murdie he is 29 years old and last known to be somewhere in ny, nj ,or pa. he has a tattoo on the back of his neck with old english writing that says dmm and several others. please i really need someones help. I am trying to move on with my new family and in order to do that i need a divorce but they say i need custody of our child legal custody through the court, but no address ,no court papers can be served.

answers:

This is called desertion or abandonment which is a very valid ground for filing divorce.

How much time apart? Is the question in your case and varies from state to state.

Check out the following website.

See a free legal aid website or legal aid forum nearest to you.

Jenny asks…

bank of americal refuses to accept court documents?

in august i took my raised seal divorce papers into the banking center in new egypt nj they told me with my birth certificate that i can not change back to maiden name, i then moved to Montana, keeping the bank accounts due to my child support and alimony were direct deposited to those accounts. i called them as i was moving in November so they wouldn’t flag my card as i used it for some type of stolen card, when i got to Montana in DEC i changed my address on their online banking. since i have called them at least 30 times trying to get the name change done. they have continued to change my address back to the new jersey address causeing them to keep telling me they cant change my name due to recent address change, im not changing my address they are. in addition to this its over a year now that i have been ordered to change my name in the divorce, i was informed i could be found in a fraud case against me for not changing my name. also when i moved my sons birth certificate was lost and the government wont give me a new one as my license is in my maiden name, and my banking info is in my married name and they also will not accept a raised seal divorce degree. i need by all mean to get the bank to stop fighting me and change my name, they want me to drive 2000 miles to a banking center to change my name, because they dont offer a center in my new state. im a single mom, and do not have that kind of money to travel back to a banking center. they are able to do it by phone, but refuse to as they said i keep changing my address. i now am not sleeping at night worring what can be done to me if my ex husband wants to press charges against me this has been an ongoing fight for months and it isnt right, the bank could of fixed this easy but THEY keep messing my info up and im paying the price. Please help, im tired of the banks taking advantage of the little people they need to be held responciable for thier actions, they same as i would be.
can i sue them to make them accept my legal documents and for the agrevation and causing me to be illegal? and as a single mom with limited income, how do i get a lawyer? or does the bank get away with discriminating against me.
yes i have offered them the updated drivers license, the divorce papers i gave them have the raised seal and the judges signature it is the origanal divorse order that the moter vichel accepted. again they said because the address has changed they can not do anything,
AS for the comment about moving the child away from the father, the father lost his rights to the child years ago for abusing him ordered by a judge. ty for your concern tho. even if your comment has nothing to do with the issue.

answers:

So you move the child away from the father to limit his access.

Richard asks…

I was married for 30 yrs then my husband divorced me. I was emotionally abused. I need help now. Where?

When divorced I had a female attorney, who knowing I was easily intimidated took advantage of me every which way she knew. I have to file a motion on a judgement in the divorce papers and I don’t have the courage, nor do I trust attorneys. I’ve been on post tramatic stress meds since the divorce. I’ve been looking for a support group but cannot find any where I live. Hudson Co., NJ

answers:

There are many attorneys that know this such behavior happens to guys .. All the time more than is known.. Look on the internet in your area and also there are many divorces support groups online check them out..God .. I feel for you .I stayed in a marriage for 23 years with so many emotional scars from it that I still have nightmares about it and have been married again for many years to a wonderful woman..but looking back wish I had stuck it to her..She walked away with everything and even tried to turn my children against me..but walking away from her and giving her everything was worth it.. But i stayed with her until my children were grown but hind site is always better.. Just keep looking and you will find the right attorney and the right support group

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Laura asks…

how long do you have to be divorced in Pennsylvania before you can get remarried?

answers:

The same day.Did you learn nothing with one divorce ?Wait awhile and know what you are doing.

David asks…

Where can I change my last name in Pennsylvania?

Its not for a divorce. I just want my dads name back instead of my f****ed up stepdads last name.

answers:

Isn’t that where Hancock lives?

Chris asks…

How old does a child have to be to choose who to live with after a divorce in the state of Pennsylvania?

answers:

I wanna say around 12 or 13-but you would need to call either a lawyer or you might be able to call the court house and ask the clerk.

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Paul asks…

Would you want to read this? ?

I’m in the process of writing a story, and I wanted to get some feedback on it! =) It wouldn’t be enough to just give you all the first page, so here’s a summary (even though it’s kinda long to call a summary, haha. Oh, and the events are much more spread out and detailed in the actual story) I know it looks long, but please read it all!

The story starts off with Anna Clark (full name Annalise; main character; story told from her point of view) on a bus back to her old town, a small community of farms, a farm supply shop, a grocery; the kind of place where everyone knows everybody. She’s staying with her grandparents, grumpy old Lydia and clueless but warmhearted Gramps. Previously living in the city a year ago, she is forced to move back after her parents were murdered by a man with a gun. (don’t back out yet, the story isn’t all depressing!) Upon arriving in the town, she takes a short tour to see if anything has changed. Amazingly, someone has built a large mansion in the tiny farm community, but Anna overlooks it, assuming that it’s just an old, rich man with nothing better to do. At the end of her “tour”, Anna drops by her dad’s friend’s farm supply shop (friend’s name = Tom Silverton). There she learns from Tom’s son Nick that the mansion is actually the home of the Othello family, and that there will be a party there the next day. (note: Nick was Anna’s boyfriend before she moved, and the two promised to get back together and attend the same college after completing high school. When Anna and Nick reunite, she tells Nick that such promises are “childish” and “unnecessary”. Their relationship problems will tie in later) Anyway, the next night Nick takes Anna to the mansion party and she slips away to explore the huge house. She finds herself in the mansion’s massive library where she discovers the Othello’s son and heir to the family business, Asher Rei Othello. As Anna befriends the reclusive Asher, she learns that his parents are actually divorced and he is living with his mother and step father. As they become even closer, Anna reveals to Asher that her parents were murdered and the name of the man who did it. The problem? The murder is Asher’s real father, Samuel Ridge (sentenced to death)(Asher’s mother and step dad changed his last name to Othello to avoid him having the last name of a murderer). Because of this, Asher keeps to himself and avoids opening up to anyone but Anna. But Houston, we have another problem… unbeknownst to anyone but himself, Ridge was framed. He’s the only person who knows the real killer, but no one is allowed to visit him in prison. Can Anna, Asher, and Nick figure out the identity of the real culprit, before Ridge’s time is up?

Anna (sixteen)convinces Asher(seventeen) and Nick(sixteen) to team up with her to look into the case, but with both boys after Anna, teamwork is the last thing they’re looking for.

So that’s the summary! I tried to make it clear and not too packed with unneeded details, but the plot is kind of complicated…

-What can I improve on?
-Is this something you would read?
-Please keep in mind that I’m typing this summary up at 2am, haha =)
-This is my first story that I’m really serious about writing, please try not to smash my hopes if it’s not the best thing you’ve ever heard of.
-If you have questions about the plot that would help you critique it better, please ask and I’ll update this question to answer it for you!

Thank you!

answers:

It sounds really good. The writting is very descriptive so i can’t even imagne what that actual content would be like. It’s pretty much the appitimie of what i would read. I think that it would be really good if the relationship between Asher and his parent were more defined but i do understand that this is just a summary. If you ever need anyone to read it you can email me at santiagomariah@rocketmail.com. I think that it has lots of promise and if your not to stuck on the names that changing anna or asher because they are really similar. I personaly like it but the name could get confusing.

Helen asks…

need help with ex-husband issues?

I am looking for people that are divorced and have kids, to answer. I have a very controlling,verbally abusive ex. He pays his child support through DR, right out of his check. He expects me to pay for EVERYTHING else for the kids. ALL sports, lessons, school supplies and the whole nine yards. He also tries to demand that I send clothing for the kids, which I did till a few weeks ago. I now send them with clean, appropiate clothing on and they wear it back home. He should be able to provide clothing for his kids. The kids get very upset, because he won’t allow them to have playdates or go to birthday parties on his custody time. He always give them excuses (which the kids know are lies). THey cry when they get invited to something if they aren’t with me for that time period. They immediately run to the calendar and ask if they are home then. He tells the kids that’s what I pay your mom for, when my son said “dad maybe you can get 2 year books and mom can get 2″.
the kids have taken the invites to their dads. He ignores the invites. The kids beg him, and cry about not being able to go, but instead he takes them to art institutes and museums. They usually tell him way ahead of time, but he just blows them off. The kids told me he is always on the cell phone at all hours. For long periods of time. He tries to claim he has this huge important job. Believe me, he doesn’t need to have calls 24/7 even on weekends.
He is also refusing counseling for the kids and one really wants to go. SHe keeps asking and dad says he isn’t in a position to consent at this time.

answers:

Don’t you have a joint parenting agreement that states that you’re supposed to split things like lessons and extracurriculars?
I’m going to play Devil’s Advocate here for a minute. You don’t say how much he sends you but I don’t think sending some clothes with them is too much to ask. When you’re the non-custodial parent, you end up buying clothes that they don’t like or won’t wear, or best case scenario you spend a bunch on clothes and they grow out of them long before they’re worn out…
As far as the playdates or birthday parties- I don’t know- if you only get to see your kids every other weekend, you want to actually see them then right? If they’re going to birthday parties or playdates, they’re not spending time with their Dad.
That being said, I have no idea what their relationship with him is or how he’s behaving or any of that stuff so your feelings may be totally justified. I don’t know the guy.

Michael asks…

How many read this section of the Obamacare ruling?

From page 42 of the ruling:
It would be a radical departure from existing case law to hold that Congress
can regulate inactivity under the Commerce Clause. If it has the power to compel
an otherwise passive individual into a commercial transaction with a third party
merely by asserting — as was done in the Act — that compelling the actual
transaction is itself “commercial and economic in nature, and substantially affects
interstate commerce” [see Act § 1501(a)(1)], it is not hyperbolizing to suggest that
Congress could do almost anything it wanted. It is difficult to imagine that a nation
which began, at least in part, as the result of opposition to a British mandate giving
the East India Company a monopoly and imposing a nominal tax on all tea sold in
America would have set out to create a government with the power to force people
to buy tea in the first place. If Congress can penalize a passive individual for failing
to engage in commerce, the enumeration of powers in the Constitution would have
been in vain for it would be “difficult to perceive any limitation on federal power”
[Lopez, supra, 514 U.S. at 564], and we would have a Constitution in name only.

From Page 46 of the ruling:

http://www.politico.com/static/PPM153_vin.html

For example, everyone must participate in the food market. Instead of attempting
to control wheat supply by regulating the acreage and amount of wheat a farmer
could grow as in Wickard, under this logic, Congress could more directly raise toolow
wheat prices merely by increasing demand through mandating that every adult
purchase and consume wheat bread daily, rationalized on the grounds that because
everyone must participate in the market for food, non-consumers of wheat bread
adversely affect prices in the wheat market. Or, as was discussed during oral
argument, Congress could require that people buy and consume broccoli at regular
intervals, not only because the required purchases will positively impact interstate
commerce, but also because people who eat healthier tend to be healthier, and are
thus more productive and put less of a strain on the health care system. Similarly,
because virtually no one can be divorced from the transportation market, Congress
could require that everyone above a certain income threshold buy a General Motors
automobile — now partially government-owned — because those who do not buy
GM cars (or those who buy foreign cars) are adversely impacting commerce and a
taxpayer-subsidized business.

answers:

I did and the judge is a legal Genius and to be applauded Justice has been served read it and weep 0bamabots

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Mary asks…

I am getting a divorce and want to know how I can put my name on the deed and mortgage?

I have a feeling my husband is setting up to buy a piece of property in Pennsylvania and wants to let our home in New Jersey go into foreclosure. What are my options?

answers:

He needs to put you in title to the house.

Only the mortgage company can decide what to do about the mortgage.

He’ll have to approve both actions unless they are part of the divorce action and property settlement.

Chris asks…

How do I do my own divorce.?

I am finished with this marriage. How do I go along with my own divorce???? I live in montgomery county Pennsylvania and I bought the disk with all the paper work to get it started but I don’t know which ones I need. It’s a simple divorce, no property. Please help. Thank you. K.

answers:

Go for it

Michael asks…

If my divorce in my state has a waiting period, can I go to another state before it is up to get remarried?

For instance, can I go to Pennsylvania(which doesnt have a waiting period) to get remarried before my 30 days in texas is over?

answers:

Your divorce would not be official until AFTER the waiting period.

I’m not sure where your 30 day period was given, most divorces are given 90 – 120 days from the time the divorce papers are filed in a ‘no fault’ divorce. And average ‘no fault’ divorce can take 4 – 6 months in PA. The 90 day period is from when the parties get served with divorce papers. YOUR period must be the period in which a divorce petition can be waived. If it is that period, you are still legally married and can not get remarried until you have the divorce papers signed by a judge.

In most states you must provide the date you were divorced when applying for a marriage license . . . In this case you would not have one yet since it is not officially filed with the courts.

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James asks…

what do you think about my grandpa’s girlfriend…?want people to tell me what u think of her?

okay i tell people about her, & ppl dont seem to understand her like i do, so ill just tell u about her & u can tell me what u think. my g pa has been dating this woman for about 2 yrs. they moved to FL, & my g pa BOUGHT the house BOUGHT her a car. anyway, the next thing u know they’re engaged!so i asked my gpa about it and he goes “kathy wanted me too”so my parents were thinking that they’ll get married & then leave him empty handed when they divorce. now, shes controlling too, oh & an alcoholic. my aunt b(my moms sister-inlaw) called the other day & said kathy & my gpa went to her house & my aunt b asked my g pa if he was coming over 2 morrow to help my uncle dave w/ the house & kathy immediatly goes “no hes busy 2morrow”WITHOUT even letting my gpa speak! so that got my aunt b & uncle mad, & when they left my uncle d was so mad & yelling(& he never gets like that. EVER, & they dont like kathy either) & my gpa is having a surprise bday party, & i made the invitations & gave them to
Kathy to send them out. &my aunt b called the other day & said my great aunt m didn’t get one!& I know for sure I made 1 out to her cuz I wasn’t sure if I should’ve put her b/f’s name on the envelope.,& she was on the list.& I know Kathy doesn’t like her, so im guessing she didn’t send it to her!so what do u guys think of Kathy?bitch, no?yes?

answers:

Lady Kathy’s got some problem. Ignore her…

Sandra asks…

My boss, who is a good friend is having her 50th birthday soon.?

Another friend sent out invitations to the party and we are to bring 50 of something. My boss is also just divorced this year, too. She is cool, so any ideas?

answers:

Panties sexy ones b/c its a good gag gift and it will put her in the mood to get back out there. To expensive here r some other ideas condoms,sex pills, make a jar put some jelly beans in there and maybe put on there that its vitamins to make her younger and sexier or something

Maria asks…

How do I keep my husband from hanging around 2 old men who are bums?

He’s 58 and they’re in their early 70s. All these old guys want to do is drink every single night. Both men are divorced & work for my husband. They called my husband on his cell phone today, the Fourth of July,and asked him to join them at a drinking party at a tavern, tonight. I wasn’t included in the invitation & my husband told them he was staying home instead with me.They know the female bartender there, from a previous tavern that she worked at, where she would give the 3 guys,free drinks, in exchange for a big tip. She was eventually fired for doing this.
Should I just brush this all off, ignore this…?!? I’m pretty angry and hurt too,because I had these old coots at my house for a nice Easter dinner with my family this year.
P.S. This older female bartender is a gambler. Likes to play the slot machines etc. My husband has a problem gambling also. I’m hoping he wont go back to the betting machines again this time.

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Well, he did tell them he was staying home with you tonight. That is something to be positive about! Tell him how nice that is, reinforce the good times! (What are you doing on the computer if he is home with you? Why aren’t you sitting with him and enjoying your time with him?)
Let him know that you aren’t “comfortable” having them around on holidays and let him know how much you miss him when he is around.
When he is around, make it more fun for him to be there, then he won’t want to be at the bar with two 70 year old bums!

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